K4D Rising #4

[25yearsmlc]

I She is pretty much in her own world. I am hardly an existance to her unless it has to do with the kids or she needs something like getting the van.

Right. B/C she isn't married to you, in her eyes. The legal divorce is merely a financial hassle and formality at this point. And she'll always have to deal with you about the kids b/c divorced or married, that is the right thing.

D11 has 7 teachers, so I am not exactly sure how that is going to work. I guess we will see.

This is normal for a back to school night, as my 12 y/o also has 6-7 teachers. What's your question? Typically, you will attend your d's classes in their order (FIRST you'll listen to the PTA), then listen to the teacher's presentations and listen to the teacher's plans and expectations for the coming year. You meet the teacher face to face if you can, you tell the teachers to call you anytime they need your support at home OR if they (the teachers) notice your d needs more help or is misbehaving. This is typical parental stuff. I went alone when h was on call and when he left. That makes it most years. Missed last year's due to deaths in the family. This year we'll go together and that'll be nice. I don't understand your confusion unless you've never been to one of these. OR, dear God, is it b/c you'll have to be around your wife? Can't you focus on your d's education for an evening?

Kevin

I asked you a question in my last post. IT's really important. Please don't keep ignoring it as it's rude to me and reveals a remarkable lack of insight on your part, at this point in this process. IN sum, You have problems Kevin.
When are you going to get help for them? Your underlying depression still lurks within, and the obsessive behavior is making your whole life worse; it effects so much. It's been almost a year. And YOU have not gotten c or T. That's stunning. Who else here has NOT gone to see IC? (I mean more than once). I bet I could count on one hand. Plus you admitted you had a life time problem with "Not knowing how to be happy...".

Get some real help for your main problems...Come on, like I asked you, what's it going to take?
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