I think invoking a certain level of mystery is good; by all means go out looking fabu.

I think little jealousy-tease tricks like the phone thing are puerile and unecessary. And, given the hx of affairs on both sides, somewhat disrespectful.

Does he go out without telling you in a general way where he's going and when he's going to be back?

I don't see any reason not to excitedly discuss your plans ... knowing you're going out dressed to kill with the intention of drinking beer with irishmen should do your work for you, really.....

JMHO; YMMV


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