Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Its been awhile since I posted. I'm sure if I was naively thinking things were turning around much quicker in my situation...but husband is home, his affair ended. He's still in therapy and on antidepressants. We moved/downsized just a few miles from our old home two weeks ago...lots of stress. Things are still good one day and not-so-good- the next.. We are in MC... H still thinks about the OW some as she dumped him and 'became' this person he didn't recognize...he's still processing it all I think. I think things are slowly improving-its hard to have perspective. H will tell me he loves me after I say it first. He still longs to feel 'in love' with me and doesn't. Thinks we don't have much in common(16 years of marriage, 21 years together, two teenage daughters later...) .. I need to remember to DB more and not just react.. Anyone been where I am...-any thoughts on what to do or not do? I'm having a hard time staying positive.