There`s a difference Cat between your H and mine: mine positively fumes when I am happy.

He was home for an hour this pm. I`d just finished up bbq with the kids and he turned off the music I had on. Did it twice so of course I didn`t get locked into a turn of the stereo war-just left it.

He also turned off the water I`d been heating for a shower.

Silly little things.

And he should be happy because he`s getting the separation he wants so much.