Maybe I'm just being dense here - but why not try a DB Coach? Ok, I know that semantically, at least, it's not counseling, but they're appropriately credentialed, and they *will* talk to both of you.
Last edited by Dia; 09/10/0905:33 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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