AFWAW, ask yourself this. If your wife switched gears in three months and said she knows she needs to move on and has found someone new, how will you feel?
The answer is, it depends. Say we did get back together and she did this, I would go no holds barred on her--I would see out to get full custody of my D with no visitation for her, I would call all the senior leadership within my career field and make sure her rep was ruined, I would find the evidence I needed to make sure she got in trouble at work--there would be no forgiveness.
Say we don't get back together--well then, it doesn't really matter, does it? I would be divorced and not talking with her anyway.
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Because of the back and forth stuff I suppose that he should be cautious, but it sounds too me like AF is really strong now and won't be so easily hurt.
I don't know about that, I may be strong but I could still be hurt again--it's still a pretty fresh wound.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
