Finding a good MC really seems to be hit or miss. We just made a mutual decision to give up on our second. Choosing the wrong one is pretty expensive in terms of both the $ and the lost opportunity.
My w did agree to return to MC if we can find a good one, but the challenge is "how do we do that?"
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
