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You have arrived...at WAH. Are you content with that?


REALLY??? Are you really saying that to me? I've done nothing wrong. I have not gone outside my marriage, done all the things that she's done, etc. Maybe I'm not understanding your point but seriously? WTF?

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So, are you just done?


I don't think I'm just done. I think it took 7 months of deception, infidelity and cruelty on my wife's part to get me where I am today. So no, it took some time to get here.

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No more marriage and no more hope? No more room for trust or forgiveness?


I'm still pondering on this one and I probably will right up until the appointment with my lawyer early next week. If I had to choose this second, then no.

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Remember how it felt when the shoe was on the other foot and it was you wanting her back?


I do, it was absolutely the worst time in my life and I've been to war twice.

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If there isn't, then I guess I'd still console her and tell her that it's too late.


Console her about what? I don't understand, I'm trying, believe me but if I do that wouldn't I be doing the same thing she did to me--giving me false hope?

Phoenixdeux,
I am trying to understand what you are trying to say and I appreciate you input but as you can gather from my response, I'm a little perplexed and angry honestly. If I'm misreading what you are trying to say, please forgive me.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!