Well in my opinion, I don't f-ing know. And no one else here does either.
Quote:
"It reminds of what is still going on with us."
Brilliant, nice little stab of guilt there.
She reached out, maybe trying to be a little nice, who the hell knows if there is anything underlying it. Sometimes when someone gives you a cup of coffee it is just a cup of coffee and it means nothing else.
If your comfortable on the couch stay on the couch, if you want to sleep in the bed sleep in the bed. But don't be a martyr about it, most certainly not outwardly. Chicks love it when guys suffer at their choices only in foreign films.
Am I being harsh? Maybe.
When is it ok to start acting like everything is ok? Like right the F now. Stop wearing your suffering on your sleeve. It is very unattractive and you NEED every advantage you can get.
It is unlikely that everything is fine and dandy in her world after just telling you she wants out only 2 weeks ago, however, how much time should have passed in your mind before she made the offer to sleep back in your bed? 2 months? 2 years? And who are you trying to make suffer?
DA, if you cannot forgive this woman, quit now. Don't waste her time or your time. If when everything comes to pass and you guys reconcile, it won't be because you remind her in your words and bearing that she had a MLC and it hurt you to your core.
If you prefer to sleep on the couch, do so. But don't be a d ick about it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
