Originally Posted By: Stronger
He sounds like he's at the end of his rope.
Are you sure he even has a lawyer?

I think it's time to 180 your butt off here.


Oh yeah, he has a lawyer.

What do you mean "End of his rope" and which 180s are you referring to.

I did all my 180s yesterday in terms of staying calm, not reacting, and having compassion for his stress. Usually I would have blown my lid right back and he could have blamed me for everything. He eventually did appologize last night.

After a brutal day of yelling at me and S.

Please, STronger remind me of what you think I should do here - your advice has been a lifeline to me. THanks!


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship