she would be showing John some respect by giving him what he needs and has clearly articulated -- space and time.
Really? Is that what almost every single person on here has done when they want to show love and respect, give space and time? She is behaving exactly like a LBS...over the top. AFWAW has essentially "dropped the bomb" and she's acting just as you probably did (and I did)....started in with the "I'll change" and "we can make this work".
Agree with above...no rush here and obviously it's ultimately your decision.
P.S. I didn't say anything about greeting her with open arms. I was saying that the road to reconciliation starts somewhere, and it can start small. It all depends on whether reconciliation is even desired. If he's now officially the WAS...then it's time for him to move on, and time for us to start coaching his wife on winning him back.
Last edited by Phoenixdeux; 09/10/0904:22 PM.
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