Not really that patient, but trying. I've only been at this since June. I see men and women on here that have been living though this he!! for many months or even years and I think - Dear God, I don't think I can do that!
Today is H 38th b-day. Really hard for me not to call or celebrate him. I will see him tonight, but it won't be very fun for me.
It seems that many of the more successful cases that I've read on this forum include women coming home. I wonder if men (WAS) find it harder to come home or just don't place the same value on the importance of family. Not throwing stones at men, just wondering.
I did set up a DB coaching session for the 18th. H didn't call yesterday and I guess he is just getting used to his new life and new found "freedom", whatever that means.
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
