I see. I was thinking detaching meant I should just be going on my own way and not worrying about him. Like instead of having a family meal, just fixing something when D and I feel like it and if he wants to eat, fine, if not, fine.
We've never texted or called each other during the day just to say "what's up". So if I start now, is that pursuing?
We'll forward a funny joke or cartoon now and then if we think the other would especially enjoy it, but that's it. I'm still doing that.
