I struggled with whether to say anything here because some of this is way out of character for me. When my wife told me she loved me still and wanted to try again, I didn't make her work at it. I gave it a chance. She made promises and she's kept them. It's been good. So obviously my feelings are clouded. I don't know his wife. If it's truly over with OM and she truly wants to give it a shot...I just don't know how much pushing away he should do.
AFWAW, ask yourself this. If your wife switched gears in three months and said she knows she needs to move on and has found someone new, how will you feel?
Because of the back and forth stuff I suppose that he should be cautious, but it sounds too me like AF is really strong now and won't be so easily hurt. If she lets him down he could easily kick her to the curb. But I was only talking about openng the door a tish....not letting her walk through it.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
