So it seems to boil down to attractiveness is the main criteria. Am I getting this right?
Not for me you aren't right...
INITIALLY for me it is the physical attraction......
Physcial attraction goes OUT the window if I don't like her personality... PERIOD...
Her physical attraction CAN increase though IF her personality starts me to see her in a different light. Some could have the best personality in history and still have no chance for me to gain interest......
Gaining too much weight CAN for sure cause the physical attraction to leave. How much? Don't know for sure in lbs, but I do know that I know it when I see it............ at that point personality does not trump looks for me. I still may like the personality and person, but lose the physical attraction...
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Not what about weight? What if the gal is 30 lbs overweight? How about 50 lbs overweight?
lbs isn't the criteria.. I have to see it to know it.
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What if the person you've been with- no longer wear's contacts b/c their eyes are too dry now, or makeup every other day as opposed to everyday.
Sarah Palin comes to mind on wearing glasses.. No issue with her...
makeup every other day??? not critical one way or the other..
I DO like to see the hair pulled up when her actual style has been down or long... The working around the house with the hair pulled up.... THAT is a huge turn on to me...
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What if they, IDK, somehow get disfigured or get a hideously short haircut better suited for someone joining the army.
Why don't you just keep asking us until you get to the one where you ask us.."how about laying in a casket, makeup or no makeup?" Getting a bit side tracked here aren't we?
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I guess what I am asking is... what if you wife is no longer a beauty? Then what?
Correct answer..... My wife will always be "my beauty".. after all.. I am sure I won't always be a Brad Pitt look alike either
