Dotty asked what has happened since the last call. Since there hasn't been a huge change or incident, I got the impression that maybe I should've waited a little longer to call.
She reminded me about reflective listening techniques I should be using, but since H doesn't want to talk to me about anything of substance, there has been only 1 opportunity to do so (regarding a plumbing issue). Of course, I froze and blew it. At least I didn't get defensive or argue though--just apologized and left the room.
She also reminded me of things I should be doing to entice him...dressing a bit more sexy, etc. And she told me I should be doing little favors, but acting like it's no big deal so as not to apply pressure. This kind of confuses me because I'm not sure how it fits in with GAL timewise.
I guess I'm not at a point where I should be detaching yet, though I almost feel like that would be best for my own emotional well-being at this point.
