EO Good for you!! It sounds like you are taking care of the situation with H perfectly. And you're getting great results. Keep it up.
In terms of your S....that was one of the reasons I told H he could move out, but he had to stay with S twice a week and take him during his weekend, every other weekend. In our situation, my H can't take S overnight because H has to be at work before the rooster starts screaming and S is only 3. But I do believe because H is around those two nights, it settle S. H's father was in a profession where he was gone over night every week, but was home every two nights for two nights. So H knew his father was going to be home...so no stress on H as a child. I pointed out that fact to him and that was my gold winner. H does stay at our place his two nights a week. I told him he could stay in the guest room. Originally he did. That lasted maybe three nights. He's been in our room ever since and on his weekends, when he could take S to his place, he stays at ours.
