I have been tempted to say to my H "it must suck to live in your head" but haven't yet.. but wouldn't that be an interesting response!

I'd not use the word "sorry"- maybe it's semantic but you've got nothing to be sorry about IMHO. You can be sad, or feel for him, or even feel bad for him that he feels that way but you are not SORRY bc there's nothing for you to apologize about.

But then again it prob won't matter, if he's like my H he will hear whatever he wants to hear anyway.


H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all