So if I get what your saying once we have arrived at this point (ILYB) we are on equal footing as the WAS.
Not really so much equal footing as ahead of them. I like to think WAS has detached and the LBS, at this point, has detached PLUS made changes to be happy for themselves.
If the WAS comes back, then good (if that is what the LBS still wants). If the WAS does not come back, that's ok too, b/c LBS is this new and improved, AND HAPPY/FULFILLED person just like they are. At that point, it's the WAS's loss.
