Not much to add. You are getting good advice too. But I wonder if you are confident in your own lawyer. I, too, went to 9 different lawyers for consultations. It ended up being a smart move for me as only one was creative enough to figure out how I could keep my house as it was built for our disabled son. I was adament about this being what I wanted for him at the time.
I was married 25 years. I do not get alimony. I am now suddenly retired. I get nothing from him, no UIC, no pension. Can't go back. But I'll be ok. Personally, I do not believe your wife should be entitled to anything.
But laws vary from place to place. Again, check with your L about the laws in your situation.
