AF,

You have arrived...at WAH. Are you content with that? The e-mail actually wasn't about the step-son, as was pointed out, it was a plea for you to comfort her. I've never been the the WAH point where I wouldn't have, so I can't even offer understanding. I would definitely have caved in.

So, are you just done? No more marriage and no more hope? No more room for trust or forgiveness? Remember how it felt when the shoe was on the other foot and it was you wanting her back? If there is a chance you'll take her back, I'd offer to meet with her and discuss things. Find out in person whether she is truly remorseful and wants a second chance. If there isn't, then I guess I'd still console her and tell her that it's too late.


You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer