In Limbo

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Ok Sara--I could use your recommendation or any others for that fact. Yesterday was an interesting day. This has been going on a little over 4 months since my W dropped the bomb. For the first couple months, I was sleeping in our bed, a few nights then the couch depending on how we were getting along. Two months ago, I just switched to the couch. It was easier and I slept better.

Two nights ago, she says you don't have to sleep on the couch always. I can sometimes. My response was no, thats OK. Then last night she says why don't you just in the bed with me. We can be adult about this. The couch has to be uncomfortable for you. I sat in the bed for a minute then said, no I will sleep on the couch. "It reminds of what is still going on with us." I just don't want to feel that things are OK with us, when just two weeks ago she was saying I want out.

So do I start sleeping in our bed again or do I remain on the couch?? Why is she asking me to sleep in the bed again??