She's angry, insulting, hurtful, has different morals and values than she used to (claims she was always this way, I just didn't know it).
I have no interest in spending the rest of my life with her the way she is now. If I think that she is going through a horrible time and we will go through a great deal of personal growth together from this and end up closer than ever I want to keep going. It's hard to see that right now though.
Funny that I keep getting called too logical and not emotional enough (most men are) when it's the logical part that's keeping me going at this point.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.