strong & patient (most days)

[karen43]

H emailed me late last night. I just was reading email and discovered it. We were doing Wed. nights at his place and every other weekend. He says now that's too much back & forth for the kids, so he wants to have Sun. mon. tues. night and every other Saturday! Doubling his time with the kids before the hearing but that's just a coincidence right? This is the guy that was spending one night with them a week a year ago, and no overnights before that. Then the rest of the email:

Speaking of confusing why were you at my complex today? did you plan on telling me about that? There are boundaries that need to be respected. while i wish i never had to interact with you i do so for the kids sake. i don't want to talk about any issues that don't relate to the kids, like (friends' name), nor do OW and i want unscheduled visits to my home.

I had dropped off D9's Nintendo DS at his apt. yesterday at her request. I was 2 blocks away from the apt. after meeting with her teacher yesterday. D9 wanted help with her homework, so I went to the park next door and we sat on a bench and spent an hour on that. She can't do it by herself, and he was at work.

The friend stuff is I made a mistake last week. One of my friends (and his but I'm on his fb so I got his email) has had medical/hospital/money issues and was freaking out, and trying to sell his stuff at a garage type sale. I forwarded the email to X, b/c I couldn't afford to help the friend out, but I was worried about him. Our friend sounded at the end of his rope & scared and has some mental issues so I was really concerned. I know I shouldn't have done that and won't do it again.

Um, what does OW have to do with me dropping off D9's Nintendo? I knocked at the apt. door and D9 came out and got it. I never have gone inside his skank pad, and don't intend to. And does he think I enjoy interacting with his sweet self??????
I haven't emailed back yet; I know I need time to cool down. Is this something I should try to handle, or just forward to my L or what do you think????

I'm also worried. When I dropped the DS off to D9 yesterday and helped her with homework, she told me she doesn't think she should tell X about that. I guess she realizes his temper/issues like when he took photos of her sunburn, and etc. I told her that she should feel free to tell him and she shouldn't keep stuff from either parent. But the truth is, she's probably right. He's a freak...