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I'm really starting to question what I want now. I am truly sorry for my role in this, but do I want to be with a woman who treats me like she has?


This is normal. Especially the doubting part. Just realize, you "feel" this way b/c she is not meeting your needs right now. And remember, this is why we don't trust our "feelings." Love is a decision.

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Should I see this as a terrible time that if we work through there is a great marriage waiting on the other side?


Absolutely. Who knows what will happen with anyone here. And, that includes what you will want. But, if you understand why you feel the way you do right now, and that feelings are not a solid base for a decision, you can understand that the answer to this question is "yes."


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current