It's MY life now!!!........

[peacetoday]

Silent

so good that you and STBX get along well--I miss that we also got along well until recently

letting go-


Its all part of the process what you are going thru
I too saw so much potential in my xh
it is an ILLUSION though
we imangine they can become what we want them to be
but they dont want that -they have other plans for their life
my xh was also emotionally distnt in the M
unsupportive for the most part
he is most likely always going to be that way
in some cases it probably can work
in mine I doubt it..too much damage and too much work
You sound strong-- well grounded and realistic
you will let go in time-- I think the process takes 2plus years for us LBS to consider moving on
first BF you have will pull you right out of it all ,and the focus will shift for the most part to BF
so hang in
it is not over
the best is yet to come
peace