DID XH M OW or not??

[peacetoday]

silent
Thanks for stopping by
It is confusing to understand what happened
I think in my case it was a change in xh but it was over years
years of bad choices for him caught up
he was a recovering alcoholic
and was on a strict and honest 12 step program
when he began to change his values it all caught up
this is probably the man he would have been had he never gotten in recovery 20 years ago
so one bad choice leads to another and maybe there seems to be no way out for some of them
the consequenses keep piling up
debt
loss of family
loss of respect
loss of work
nothing stops them

we on the other hand have to be strong and keep going making good choices
and sometimes our best choice is to let them go they are not good for us anymore
peace