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Because you don't tell people about your secret hurts unless you trust them.


Not always true. Betrayed spouses are notorious for telling secret hurts to people they don't trust. (namely the WS)

WS's many times don't tell you about their secret hurts until AFTER they have lost trust in you. Then a list of secret hurts comes out a mile long....

Be careful. This doesn't necessarily mean she trusts you. It could very well be because she is angry and doesn't give a hoot what you think.