@LFH, we are feeling the same things. While I am ok with the possibility of no R with my W, I cannot say the same for my kids. And I think that is also where I'm supposed to be. We detach from our spouses, not our children. And if the worst happens, I won't like it, but I can handle it and I will STILL be VERY involved in my kids' lives. It will just be a little different.
@GFO, the love tank thing is important. Thanks to Puppy Dog Tails and Coach for teaching me that. The important thing to realize is that love is not a feeling, but a decision. So, even if we don't have those "feelings," it does not mean we don't love our spouses. It is a pretty strange place though.
