I have calmed down a lot on the negativity. We have had conversations regardless of who started them. She hasn't left. She hasn't called a lawyer. She is going to Retrouvaille. I have a lot to be positive about. I am a selfish person, it has manifested itself in my marriage and is probably one of the contributing factors of our problems. I have made a lot of progress with it as it pertains to my R, but it still appears. I want my marriage to be fixed, and I want it now. When I don't get my way, I dwell on the negative and sulk. I am concentrating on the positive things now, and will bring that forward as deep said.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
