DID XH M OW or not??

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, Peace.

Wow, I can't believe your H hasn't told his children he is M!

I am thankful my kids are older and I don't have to deal with the visitation thing and all that. Both of my kids have major issues with their dad, but my STBXH at least tries to reach out to them..... although with my S18 H keeps threatening to "cut him off" because H is tired of being rebuffed, and I can't say as I blame him for that one.....

Tell me...... do you find yourself looking at your past life with your H wondering if they were lying all along about things? I mean it's hard to think that somebody can just change their values like that, and I find myself re-examining past events and wondering if things my H said then were really the truth.......Ya know what I mean? I find that I just question so much now, even about my own judgement....

Anyhoo...... hang in there!!

((((((hugs))))))