Yes, it is about you. Believe me.....I know how hard that is. I am a year and a half down the road from you, and everybody tells me how great I am doing, and I'm thinking they are out of their mind because I can still break into tears at any given moment.
But, looking back I can see progress. It's slow, and patience has never been my strong suit, even with myself, but I know I am going to be happy again one day.....or maybe truly happy for the first time in my life, because I feel like I have really buried my head in the sand for many years.
Anyway, I have a good C, and that really does help. And I really do encourage you to get that book I mentioned. "Facing Love Addiction" by Pia Mellody. It opened my eyes a lot.
Take care.
((((((hugs))))))
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
