Hmmmmm, maybe tonight being the night before he goes away, I'll do a pre dinner platter, have a good meal ready and one his most favourite desserts waiting. And a sexy little number on as well. Something for him to think about as he packs for his weekend away.
Is there any ground rule for how long a pullback typically lasts? Just curious.
I'm away for the weekend - have to head south to check in on my grandfather while my parents are out of town. My hunch is that this will ease a lot of the pull back if it hasn't eased before then.
Also, I am considering writing a letter to OW1 - not a vengeful, hateful letter but a serious, reflective letter. Any thoughts on that?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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My H's first pullback lasted one week, the second one two weeks and this one well who knows. There probably is no ground rule would depend how far they pullback.
Why would you write a letter to OW1? out of curiosity.
What are you looking for this woman to say? "Oh, yeah, I'm sorry I stole your husband all those years ago. I didn't really need him. Glad you got him back."
I'm off to get dinner organised now....nothing like yours though. Your meals have been sounding delicious! Thought I might pop in for a visit(at dinner time)!
Like the idea of giving him a little space but keeping 'the home fires burning'
Expect being away for the weekend he wont feel so pressured, and also it will give him time to miss you! Agree with Cas your cooking sounds delicious, I seriously miss cooking a meal, although I make sure I cook for myself I do miss cooking for more, will have to get some friends round for dinner next weekend!
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Sorry this is late but I just read your post about "falling in love" and other languages. In French, one says, "tomber amoureux" which means "to fall loving" so the verb "to fall" is used in reference to love in a language other than English.
I have been following along on your thread and think you are a bright, capable and very strong woman. You have a great sense of humor...never lose that, no matter what.
