Yes, I'm a bit nervous, but for the first time in months my muscles in my back and legs have actually quieted down and loosened up... I feel good, although my hands are a bit stiff yet. I don't know if this is a sign or not, but I'm going with it for now.
If I were to bet, I'll get a call by Friday evening telling the Hearing date has been rescheduled.
I failed to mention, my attorney's wrote out the Journal Entry to the last Hearing in July, sent it to Dick's attorney for signature, and it's been sitting in Dick's attorney's office ever since.... as if she knew this is what Dick had planned.
Normally, without the previous Journal Entry it is difficult to file for contempt, however, my attorneys (Father, Daughter team) ordered the Hearing Transcript and were able to redeem the information they needed from it to be able to legally file the contempt order.
I think Dick and his Attorney will be quite surprised to see the contempt order, for they think they have the ace up their sleeve. They've been winning all along with dirty pool or politics.... and my two attorney's take great pride in knowing how to play in a dirty courtroom while taking the high road.
They haven't charged me a penney for this, they are enjoying it too much... They have many cases like mine in this county, along with several in Wichita also. Slowly but surely they are cleaning up the field.
As I was listening to the two of them talking to each other, I realized that these two are idealist, believing in more of what they were doing than chasing after a quick buck. I know in my case, they are doing it for my children, more than they are for me, but you know, this works for me, and feels right too.
Now, how I'm going to work this out with D, if she comes home, I have no idea. I know at first she will be angry, especially with me. Some of the ideas Dick has planted in her head, may even be justified by this action too. I think time will be my only tool, that and to be reunited with her good friends and everything she left behind, might just be the ticket.
Argh, it will all work out the way it is supposed to... that's all I do know right now.
Peace, love and joy to you all....
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
I like the sound of your attorneys. We need more people like that in the world. Good luck with your daughter.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
I've noticed you post rather late or early (depending on how one would look at it) does this mean you aren't sleeping through the night or just another night owl?
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
I am a night owl, for sure! And, I'm back at school so tend to lose track of time with assignments.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
As anticipated, Dick can't make this Monday's court time, and should have been given 5 days notice.
However, for some reason, Attorney "Dad" wants Dick to be Served the Contempt papers in California. I didn't have enough time to ask him why, but he doesn't do something without reason. He knows I don't have any money right now, but he seems unconcerned about the costs of having Dick served. He told me not to worry, it will all work out in the end.....
So, do you have a clue why my Attorney wants Dick served, instead of just notifying him in the usual way? The only thing I can think of is if he is served, is there a possibility of obtaining a different Judge? Even after 6 plus years of this divorce process, I still don't understand court, divorce law, or any of the procedures.... I feel a bit dense honestly, so I need someone to explain it to me using very little words..., ;-D
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
I think your attorney is very annoyed with the way the judicial system has worked in your situation. I also think that by serving him the papers, it sends a clear message that your lawyer isn't playing the same old game. With him being served, he will have absolutely no excuse not to say he wasn't aware or given ample notice.
As for your attorney, bravo! Finally, someone with enough backbone to take this man on. I do believe you've gotten the right one now.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Yes I would agree with Snodderly - it's a very strong message that's being sent there.
I'm so happy for you that you seem to have found a lawyer with a concience. I have to admit that my lawyer worked free of charge for me too. How can parents with children compete with walk away parents otherwise?
Good luck with your daughter.
