I'm ok with the hijack. I watch your posts anyhow. I always learn from others' sitches.
I have no idea what kind of higher paying job I could have - especially part time iwth a little one. I like my life but he thinks I could consult on all kinds of things - I just don't know.
I can't help but feel like - hey, H moved out, H wants the lawyers - now he comes home and yells at ME for all the extra money this costs? Where is the responsibility for his part in getting us here too. I've been doing well doing my changes, taking responsiblity for my part in our problems, he is the one frankly who is hiding out and continuing the same old pattern of blow ups and blame.
Sigh. I want him home. I don't want all these thousands of dollars taken out of our savings. But this is his choice - so why the hell is he yelling at me? The way things were before, we could afford our lifestyle. This is just crazy. Help!
