k, I'm glad Puppy said it first, but I'm with him. If hes a big enough boy to get on a plane to go see her, hes big enough to call a cab.
Figure out what your boundaries are and what the "deal breakers" are.
You can't keep him from doing whatever hes going to do, but you certainly don't have to facilitate it either.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option