My wife actually offered me dinner tonight. I almost could not beleive it. I said sure. I did not jump up and down saying yes,yes! Then at dinner she seemed to be much more interested in my reactions to thinkgs we talked about. She wanted to see me try to belly dance because my daughter was trying it. She touched my arm as she squeezed by my chair- this is really interesting. She usually takes the route that would keep her clear of touching me in any way.

Our anniversary is on the 16th. We stood in front of the calendar and talked about schedules and weekends and work for atleast 30 minutes. She said not one thing about our anniversary and neither did I. I am preparing to ignore the date when it comes. I just dont know what I feel about it anymore.


Anyway, I think I backslid tonight by giving my wife too much attention. Your thoughts?

Last edited by v1olin; 09/10/09 02:52 AM.
Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final