Orich,

A month ago, your wife agreed to go to Retrouvaille and work on the marriage with an open mind and a willing heart. She said she would not change her mind. She told you the truth. She has not changed her mind. You have worried and sweated the entire month. It is good. When you walk in the door of Retrouvaille, leave all your worries behind. Just think about what the team leaders are telling you. Focus on the questions and answer them with as much description as you can. You are both going in there willingly. This will work out fine.