crud, I'm here now but it's pretty late adn I dont' see your emoticon being active I'll try to sign in tomorrow at 11pm eastern time, hope you are around.
Amazing, not a problem lately with him --mostly because she is out of state-- and now exMIL tells me that he told her when his W comes back she will be the one "dealing with me", meaning he will leave her to do all talking the parenting desicions...why? because , according to exMIL he can't deal with anything else...(insert scream here) I knew he was a coward but not this extreme. If I wanted to make his live a living hell I would've, but you all know how much I've forgiven and how accomodating I've been ...heavens, this totally tops it all...I could say a million things, I swear...
exMIL thinks he's going to crack soon and loose it... she does not think the kids are in danger but I made her promise to think of the kids first and tell me if the time comes when I need to remove the kids from his care.
I've been racking my brain preparing myself for when the coward tells me that woman will be talking to me. I will NOT talk nor deal with her at ALL. Unless something else comes up I'm thinking of telling him that I'll file for full custody and will send child services to his disgusting townhome (his several animals poop indoors & it never gets cleans up, they eat upstairs because the downstairs is full of flies) if he doesn't want to bother to co-parent, that should shut him up.
Yikes, so much for being a lurker :P !
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.