Well, pretending to be close to me to get to baby is what he was doing. If he was a stand up guy, made his regular visits, not an alcoholic I probably would be a bit more flexible on the wanting to be with her more. The truth is he misses so many visits and is always drunk I really need to keep him at a distance.

I love you guys for keeping my thinking in line!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!