Ok lonely one I totally get where you are coming from, honey you get more bees with honey. If she needs space give it. The more her folks push her to get away from you the more she will want to go back, at least that is how it is for most woman. Good luck and keep the distance..... but not from the kids. Those are yours and they need you now. Develop that relationship and it may work to your benefit. A true loving mom wants nothing more for the kids then daddy to be there. And on that note, the in-laws are not helping you.... by supporting her and the kids they are making it to easy to be a single mom. Just keep up the good work. It'll pay off, one way or another.... One thing I am trying is to be more like I was in the beginning... When the love started. Be yourself, it may help out too. Good luck!
t=5.5yrs m=4 kids=4 (8,9,10,&11) I dropped the bomb 10-09 regaining myself in house seperation 9-6-09 divorce final 4-19-10 Moved out 9-17-09