I have put some Sherlock skills to work. She, the "Friend" left her husband too. He and I have been talking about what is going on. I am not sure what to think of the whole thing. He removed his wedding band and stuck it in his wallet "just incase he wants to put it back on" and refuses to give it to me for safe keeping. That is fine.... whatever. But he is telling her husband if everything straightens itself out we will be a family again. He is gonna have some work to do though to earn back the trust he has destroied..... That much I am sure of. Also on the brighter side he was not with "her" tonight he was seeing old friends and came home saying it is no fair to me that he is out late. We had a few laughs together, he played Daddy for a minute and now we are just taking up space in the same room. I am being cool and he is being receptive. huh. Hope may still be there.
t=5.5yrs m=4 kids=4 (8,9,10,&11) I dropped the bomb 10-09 regaining myself in house seperation 9-6-09 divorce final 4-19-10 Moved out 9-17-09