That is foreplay for some women. Don't knock it b/c it is very good that you two are in this place. I know it has been difficult for you but one thing that makes you want her "more" is just the fact you know she isn't interested.....so when you see a big sign reading "hands off", guess what you want to do? Exactly!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
