Where the hell was all of this dedication and hard work before the A?
Don't forget that she has been high on the drug and when that fizzles out.....then she will crash big time. Don't feel jealous of that b/c what she has felt has not been "real" love or energy or pride......it was just brain chemicals fooling her and she was trying to find the fountain of youth. She will either be very pitiful when she crashes, or else she will be so bitter that nobody can stand to be around her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
