He is really stressed about money. I feel so bad because I don't work and he works so hard. Granted I take care of our child and I work part time but it's only about 20% of our income. He thinks I should get a higher paying job.

I can't help but think that all this lawyer stuff is costing extra money - so it's his choice to spend it, and for his other apt. But that's not the way he sees it. I don't know how he sees it. But he is really stressed from running his own business and not taking time off.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship