Just wanted to let you know that I am following along even if I don't always post. I ditto dancequeen. I have the same experience of seeing my H listen when I am strong and stand my ground -but it is also very tiring and difficult emotionally to keep up. With God all things are possible but not without a lot of hard work sometimes. Your choice. What are your intentions in the R and what choices will further those intentions and which choices will undermine them.
