H was funny last night, he must still have some niggling doubts about me and what I might be up to. When he came home last night I was in the bathroom, D said this morning that when he came in and couldn't see me he instantly said to D "where's Mum". She said there was some panic in his eyes and his voice.
So there is something that he is still finding mysterious about me which is good. Now he goes away this weekend and I do have plans for both Friday and Saturday nights.
On the phone last night he heard me telling a friend that I would be out both nights. I never said where or with who I was going. I could see him look but he asked nothing. Will be interesting to see if he rings over the weekend and if he does how many times. I won't be answering first time or straight away.
I have also found out that he is surfing around a relationship help website. I have had a look but it is nowhere near the quality and brilliance of this site and does not have any qualified people helping like the DB coaches or Michelle or any books.
It merely appears to be people who are either WAS or LBS supporting each other, venting and giving advice to each other.
He appears to be searching the sections on reconnecting and some other threads, but the site is not as user friendly and is a tad confusing.
Hmmmmm, maybe tonight being the night before he goes away, I'll do a pre dinner platter, have a good meal ready and one his most favourite desserts waiting. And a sexy little number on as well. Something for him to think about as he packs for his weekend away.
While this idea sounds lovely, it doesn't fit well with the whole "mysterious Oz who keeps him off-balance and guessing" vibe, does it?
Maybe save it for later?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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You know I thought that too after I wrote it, it might be best if I am really not at home tonight when he gets there, was toying with the idea of going to the movies or somewhere, anywhere just so I am not there.
Hmmmmm, maybe tonight being the night before he goes away, I'll do a pre dinner platter, have a good meal ready and one his most favourite desserts waiting. And a sexy little number on as well. Something for him to think about as he packs for his weekend away.
While this idea sounds lovely, it doesn't fit well with the whole "mysterious Oz who keeps him off-balance and guessing" vibe, does it?
Exactly. Take another look at gucci's post to you yesterday. He wrote in part:
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
You had him worried and then went right back to reassuring him you are there and all he has to do is give you a little test and you will fail...
You HAVE to play this out UNTIL he goes through the "crisis"... HE was teetering...
Yes that's why I had 2nd thoughts on that one. I need to keep him guessing what I am up to and at the moment he is still trying to guess and I certainly want him to spend the weekend wondering what I might be up to not that I want to hijack his weekend but it won't hurt him to be thinking about me.
Any thoughts on my earlier post above on his surfing a site for relationship support.
