AH!!! wow, he definitely is not happy. omg, if she had any idea he did that??? yikes. but, it doesn't totally surprise me. he is in desperate need of something and he has no clue what it is. just trying to get whatever he thinks will make it work for him.
glad you were able to not freak out and just leave.
hey, like I said, I don't understand it either, but my H, and he was/is a good person, hardly saw his first born. the guy was 27 years old when s11 was your babies age. he saw CJ twice a month for like 3 years. does that make sense? I think if your exh had been with K everyday for so long and THEN left, I think it'd probably be a little different. even though SO2s sitch is like that, imho it would be worse if her exh had never been there in the beginning.
but like gabby said, she will be okay because YOUR providing that consistency and that love. find a male role model/models that will be the same for her, so she can see how a woman SHOULD be treated and what REAL men do.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
