Mr. A came over last night and hung some blinds for me. Afterwards he helped DD21 with her accounting homework. I bet not many students in her class have a tutor that is an actual accountant.
STBX got upset with DD18 Monday when she was leaving to go back to college. He wanted her to come by and see him before she left. She was already waiting for a friend in a parking lot who was going to follow her to her college, and then head about 40 minutes north to his college when her dad called. STBXH was out of town all weekend with the OW and her son at the lake. He did not call her until 3:00 to ask her to come by. I'm assuming he had just got back in town. If seeing her was a priority he should have stayed in town or called to see what time she was leaving so he could have been back in time.
DD21 got upset with him Sat. because he told her she could take a friend to the Razorback game about 2 weeks ago, but then that morning he calls and says he gave the 2 extra tickets to OW's kids. It worked out okay, because youngest DD18 didn't want to go so she gave up her ticket. DD18 is very social, she just wanted to tailgate and see her friends that are different colleges. She is my social butterfly. LOL
I hate that my daughters have to put up with his nonsense, but so glad I don't! It's so nice not have to put up with his mood swings. I did take the high road and tell them no matter what, he is their dad, they may not like him all the time, but they will always love him and to remember that. DD21 said it was very hard to like him most of the time.
When Mr. A was over here last night, I bet they talked more in one night than she does to her dad in a week. Mr. A continues to look better all the time.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
