Stitch, That is a tough question....I would lean towards doing nothing. Hopefully Lola has an opinion and I would listen too it very closely. You still need to give us more information on say the previous two years of your marriage....Your wife is at an age were it could be a full blown MLC, but a couple things pop up that tell me there is a fox in the chicken coop!
1-The new underwear...though women like to look pretty, the timing seems weird 2-Consumed on looks 3-The lack of "respect" comment
If I was on the prowl and wanted to seduce her....I would complement her on her looks and shower her with appreciation and respect...though more than likely lies....it would work. From there she would work on improving her appearance and throw the lack of respect comment your way. Do you think this could have happened?
Good initial 180 on the anger management class...uncontrolled anger is bad for anything from a marriage to just raising your kids. What other 180's have you done? Any GAL'ing? Have you given her space?
